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Ten Observations on Starting at a New Congregation

8/11/2011

 
It has been one month since I began my new position as the rabbi of Temple Beit HaYam. I can't say that I have mastered anything in my new job yet, but here are ten observations about the experience:

1) As excited as I am about the new congregation, the members of the congregation are even more excited about the new rabbi. There is a tremendous amount of energy in the congregation because of the transition. I'm trying to harness that energy to build lasting efforts toward long-term goals.

2) Everything is on the table. I have not yet heard someone say, "We don't want you to change that at all." With the energy of transition there is the ability to consider careful and thoughtful changes in almost every aspect of the congregation.

3) I could eat three meals a day for a month just by accepting every invitation I've received. I regret the need to say "no" or "not yet."

4) It takes a long time to feel really comfortable in a new workplace. I didn't realize how many details go into making my office just right.

5) There is a limit to the number of new names my brain can learn in a day.  I have a long way to go.

6) The fact that I feel so overwhelmed by everything reminds me not to overwhelm the congregation with things that are new to them.

7) Human beings are, by nature, warm and welcoming to someone who has come to join their community.

8) I constantly need to forgive myself for not understanding so much about how this congregation works.

9) Unpacking boxes takes a really long time.

10) Everything offered with love is received with love. Every kindness is an invitation to kindness in return.  I am blessed to be here.
Reb Rachel link
8/11/2011 12:12:07 pm

I love reading this post as a parallel to the ten observations you made on your last day at the old job. (And both posts contain good observations for me to bear in mind, too.)

I am so glad that you are being welcomed with open arms and open hearts. That's entirely as it should be! They are blessed to have you.

And oh, holy wow, I just noticed your new blog header image, with just a glimpse of you in your tallit in the corner...

Barb L.
8/11/2011 01:59:36 pm

I am glad to hear things are going so well but I also miss having you in MA.

Ronn AKA the "Shu"
8/11/2011 02:19:39 pm

Rabbi Jeff, Welcome to Palm City, FL - as a former NY'er we call this paradise! We love the warm summers where the ocean surf is 87 not 72 as the Atlantic is up north. You will love the mild winters despite the snowbirds! And if we want to see any other season besides endless summer you can travel and get a taste of the foliage, spring and or cold... As we age I have found I can always cool down but once I get cold.... Brrrrr it is not the same...;-)


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