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Metzora: The Sanctity of Our Homes

4/4/2011

 
A mezuzah on the door. A set of silver Shabbat candlesticks on the table. A Torah commentary on the bookshelf. These are some of the objects you might see at my house that declare it to be a Jewish home, even to the casual observer. Each of these objects, too, suggests that there is something sacred about a Jewish home.

Of course, what really makes a Jewish home a sacred place is more than special objects. Real holiness, in Judaism, is not conveyed by holy relics. Jewish tradition has always been a bit shy about the idea that a physical object can be holy.  That would smack as a bit too idolatrous. The closest we come to declaring an object holy, perhaps, is a Torah scroll or the written name of God. Even then, the tradition acknowledges that such objects gain their holy status only from the intention of the people who create and use them, not because of an intrinsic closeness to God.

The holiness of a Jewish home really comes from the relationships and behaviors within the home. When couples treat each other with loving dignity and care, there is holiness in the home. When parents spend time with their children to teach them the essential values of compassion, integrity, justice, humility and reverence, there is holiness. When visitors are treated with hospitality and open-heartedness, then the home becomes a holy place in a way that is more meaningful than any mezuzah could convey.

This week's Torah portion, Metzora, deals with the strange phenomenon of a house that has contracted a disease. Many commentators puzzle over the possibility that a house could have tzara'at, the skin ailment that is usually (but wrongly) translated as leprosy. 

One commentator, Rabbi Yehudah Lieb Alter of Ger (known as the Sefat Emet), says that the idea that a Jewish home could contract the disease is an indication of just how holy a Jewish home can be. Tzara'at is understood in Jewish tradition as a disease of the soul; it is a physical manifestation of a moral or spiritual brokenness. Rabbi Lieb says that "Israel’s holiness is so great that they can also draw sanctity and purity into their homes." How else could a home contract a disease that afflicts holiness?

This week, as we prepare for the holiday of Pesach, our attention is drawn to the holiness of our physical homes as it is at no other time of the year. We begin the process of removing chametz (leavening) from our home to purify it for the coming holiday. There is a tendency to become a little obsessive about removing every crumb from every corner of the house.  (I speak from personal experience).  I want to suggest, though, that the obsession with the physical aspect of purifying our homes should not overshadow the more important task of revealing the sanctity of our homes.

In preparation for Pesach, you may wish to think about they ways that you make your home a sacred place with respect to the relationships and behaviors within it. Take time to repair any brokenness in the ways that members of your household treat each other. Make the process of searching for leavening also a process of searching for opportunities to renew the sanctity of loving relationships. In this way, we affirm the sanctity of our homes.
Rabbi Paul Kopnes link
4/4/2011 01:55:37 pm

great post on a troublesome parasha. Bravo!

Susan Le Gresley link
4/7/2011 09:57:21 pm

Hi, I thought about this and as i use (crystal the cheap stuff)vinegar as a household cleaning product, Ialso put it in the rinse aid compartment in my dishwasher in response to this post.

I guess that's the idea of (Lent) for us is to consider doing a personal spring clean. Yeast (everybody needs candida in their body) can get out of control with too much sugar and starch in the diet all the time. So I guess the idea is to do this (Lent) thing as both a physical 'spring clean (detox) and also to make time to consider the passover.

For a Christian, the death of Jesus instituted a new covenant that gave 'equal rights' to adopted children.

We understand that by Jesus risen on the third day, we have 'died with Christ' in our sinful nature, (been spiritually cleansed by His blood) then in the risen Lord we have a new life.

We follow the same pattern of the original passover ceremonies (Lent starts on shrove tuesday, (pancake day)
Ash wednesday, where high church signs the forehead with a cross of ashes, Maunday Thursday, Good Friday, and Hot cross buns on Sunday morning cross buns. (Homemade!)

(Fish on Easter Friday)

The trouble is no one remembers what these things are for. Easter eggs are in the shops all year round, and Hot cross buns in the supermarket from Christmas!


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