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Joy Increases

2/10/2013

 
Late yesterday afternoon, as I enjoyed a Shabbat walk, I noticed the sky. Just a little bit lighter, I thought to myself, than it was at this hour a few weeks ago. Spring is coming and that lifts my heart.

Even in southern Florida where the weather is warm year-round, the winter months feel a bit darker and a bit duller. As the sky brightens, there is the beginning of a sense of renewal.
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A glorious tree blooming today in the Temple courtyard.
Today is the 30th day of the month of Hebrew month of Sh'vat, which means that it has been thirty days since the last new moon. But the moon is on a cycle of 29 and a half days, so today and tomorrow are really the first days of the next new moon and the month of Adar. Jewish tradition tells us that "When Adar enters joy increases" (B. Talmud Ta'anit 29a). 

That increase in joy usually is associated with the coming of the holiday of Purim, which is celebrated on the 14th of Adar, exactly two weeks from today. But the joy of Adar is also associated with the coming of spring. Even in the cold north, the first bulbs are starting to awaken under the soil as the earth gradually warms. Here in Florida, the flowers on some of our trees are exploding with joy. 

Our tradition teaches us that we are obliged to fill our hearts with joy. Rabbi Nachman of Bratzlav, who is said to have fought depression all his life, offered us this prayer:
God, I stand beaten and battered by the countless manifestations of my own inadequacies. Yet we must live with joy, overcome despair, seek, pursue and find every inkling of goodness, every positive point within ourselves, and so discover true joy. Aid me in this quest, O God. Help me find satisfaction and a deep, abiding pleasure in all that I have, in all that I do, in all that I am. 
—Likutei MoHaRan 1:282 (adaption by Moshe Mykoff and S.C. Mizrahi)
For those who are feeling beaten and battered by the darkness of winter and by the storms of life and sky, this is a time to focus on brightening our souls. Seek, pursue and create excuses for your own happiness. Be outdoors, sing, play, take pleasure, and delight in all growing things. It is among the best ways of praising the One who created us to be joyful.


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"When Adar enters, we increase joy"

"When Adar enters, we increase joy"

2/24/2012

 
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Today is the first day of the Hebrew month of Adar, the month in which the joyful holiday of Purim occurs. According to a famous quote from the Talmud, "Mishenichnas Adar marbin b'simchah," "When Adar enters, we increase joy" (B. Ta'anit 29a). Since this is a blog about Jewish joy, I cannot really let the occasion pass without comment, can I?

An inspection of the passage in the Talmud reveals that the rabbis weren't really talking about the joy of Purim. Rather, they were talking about the misery of a different holy day—Tisha B'Av, the darkest day of the Jewish year, the day that marks the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.

After a long discussion that details all of the woes of Tisha B'Av, the Ninth Day of Av, the rabbis state, "When Av enters, joy decreases." It is only as an apparent afterthought that "Rav Yehudah, the son of Rav Shmuel bar Shilat said in the name of Rav, 'Just as when Av enters, we decrease joy, thus when Adar enters we increase joy.'" 

This statement is immediately followed by a comment about luck. The mazal (luck) is better in Adar than it is in Av. Adar is a much better time for you to enter risky endeavors, says the Talmud, "to give you a future and a hope" (Jeremiah 29:11). 

Now, once the Talmud gets rolling with biblical quotations, it just cannot help itself from continuing with the interpretations. I won't go into all of the details, but the Talmud then goes on to compare the phrase "future and hope" to the values of living a simple, pastoral life. Hopefulness is the product of living with the smell of apple orchards in your nose and the feel of durable work clothes on your back. Av is associated with the destruction of cities. Adar is associated with the simple joys of living off the land.

This is a much different idea of the joy of Adar than what we usually think. When we think of Adar, we think of the silliness and over-the-top merriment of Purim. The quote from the Talmud that associates Adar with joy, though, has a different image in mind. It is the joy of the worker in the field, far away from the hustle, bustle and squabbling of the city. It is not the joy of drunken revelry. It is the joy of having a future and a hope.

We are entering springtime, or at least (depending on your latitude) we are entering the first whispers of spring in our ears. It is a time for renewing our sense of hope for warm days and plentiful harvests to come. It is the season of the deep joy of satisfaction, the season of cycles that renew themselves without our help or intervention. When Adar enters, we increase in joy. We increase in our sense of wellbeing in the world and the sense that, through simplicity, we discover the things that matter most in life.

Rosh chodesh tov! May you have a good month of Adar!


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Joy and Obligation

Joy and Obligation

2/5/2011

 
I swear, I did not plan it this way.  

This morning, just two days after I launched this blog about Jewish joy, was Rosh Chodesh Adar Aleph, the first day of the first month of Adar.  (Did you know that we have two months of Adar this year? Long story.)  

According to a rabbinic saying in the Talmud (B. Ta'anit 29a), "Mishenichnas Adar marbin besim'cha," "When Adar enters, joy increases." The timing, it seems, could not be better for starting a conversation about joy. Sometimes things just work out that way.

During services this morning, I talked about my First Post and the idea that Judaism needs to rediscover its joy in order to remain relevant and vital to the Jews of the 21st century.  We had a great discussion and one of my brilliant congregants (the only kind I have) raised a really good point.

She agreed, absolutely, that the lack of joy in so many congregations keeps a lot of Jews away from Judaism, and that a more joyful experience would attract many Jews who have been disaffected. However, she also said that the low synagogue affiliation rates also are due to a lack of a feeling of obligation to the Jewish community. 

In previous generations, many Jews went to synagogue (joyful or not—mostly not) because they felt a sense of obligation. They knew that the community needed them and that, perhaps, someday they would need the community. That sense of mutual responsibility was a glue that kept the Jewish community together for a long time. Sadly, it seems to be on the wane.

And that got me thinking. Which is the more significant factor? Which would do a better job of getting more Jews involved in Jewish community? Making the experience of Jewish community involvement more joyful, or heightening the awareness of that the Jewish community depends upon the involvement of each individual?

In the end, I don't think there really is a dichotomy. You don't have to choose one or the other. In fact, I think the decline in a sense of obligation is related to the lack of joy. I believe that a more joyful Judaism would lead to a greater sense of obligation.

Let me explain that, because I think it is a point that goes against the way that most Americans think about obligations. In some way, most of us have to unlearn the way we were taught to think about obligation by secular society.

In American culture, obligations are usually thought of as onerous—something you have to do that, given your druthers, you would rather not do. Paying taxes and showing up for jury duty are civic obligations that most Americans just put up with.  They are seen as "the price we pay" for our freedoms. Very few Americans think of these duties as being, in any way, joyful.

However, in Jewish thought, a chiuv, an obligation, is not generally regarded negatively.  A chiuv—whether it is for helping the poor or  for lighting Shabbat candles—is an opportunity for affirmation and connecting. Our obligations are the things that bind us to one another and to God. This is why, in Jewish thought, obligations usually are equated with commitments. By fulfilling our obligations, we demonstrate our loyalty to our bedrock beliefs and bind ourselves more securely to family, community, and to our ultimate values and ideals.  Obligation is seen as a joyful experience.

The problem is, most American Jews are not living in that understanding of what a chiuv is all about. Ask any synagogue treasurer to recount the times that congregation members have joyfully presented their dues checks, and you will learn that we don't have many Jews who feel a sense of elation about their obligations to the Jewish community.

But we do have a few. There are those wonderful souls in almost every congregation who do get it—who see their contribution to the community as a joyful obligation. Who are those people? For the most part, they are the people who are most involved in the community, who delight in seeing it thrive, and who experience joy when they come. These people teach us that the best way to create a sense of obligation to the Jewish community among today's Jews is to make sure that they have lots of joyful experiences whenever they participate in the Jewish community.

On the first day of Adar this year, the time of increasing joy, we read the Torah portion that tells how Moses accepted donations for the building of the mishkan (the portable tabernacle the Israelites carried through the desert). Moses took gifts from "all whose hearts so moved them"—"kol ish asher yidveinu libo" (Exodus 25:2). 

What a perfect lesson for the day on which Adar enters and joy increases. We find our greatest joy in fulfilling our obligation to support one another and to treat each other with open hearts.

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