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The Great Sabbath, Elijah's Cup, and the Unkept Promise

4/11/2014

 
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Tonight begins Shabbat HaGadol, the Shabbat before Passover whose name means, "The Great Sabbath." It is reasonable to ask why this, of all sabbaths, would have the distinction of being called "great." 

The most common explanation comes from the last verses of the special haftarah reading of this day. The prophet Malachi says, "Behold, I will send Elijah the prophet to you before the coming great and awesome day of Adonai. He shall turn the hearts of the parents to the children, and the hearts of the children to their parents, lest I come to strike the land with destruction" (Malachi 3:23-24). Traditionally, the first of these two verses is repeated after the last, so the reading in Hebrew ends with the words, "The coming great and awesome day of Adonai." 

So, if this is the reason for the name of this Shabbat, we call it "great" because it reminds us that God's redemption is not yet complete and there is still a "great and awesome" day to come. On that day, Elijah the Prophet, the herald of redemption, will "turn the hearts of the parents to the children and the hearts of the children to their parents." What does that phrase mean?

Passover is a holiday that is all about redemption. We remember how God redeemed Israel from slavery in Egypt. Yet, in the Haggadah, the rabbis constantly emphasize that the redemption we experienced at the Red Sea is only a provisional redemption. There is still an even greater redemption that we are waiting for – one in which the entire world will be redeemed. Based in part on the verse from this haftarah, the rabbis made Elijah the symbol of that promised and as-of-yet unfulfilled redemption. 

The large cup of wine that sits in the middle of our seder table is not called "Elijah's Cup," as many suppose, because the prophet will silently and invisibly come drink from it during the seder. Its meaning is far deeper than that. On an evening when we drink four cups of wine to represent the four promises that God made to the Israelites, Elijah's Cup is the fifth cup. It is the cup from which we cannot yet drink because the promise has not yet been fulfilled. 

What is that promise? It is that "the hearts of the parents will turn toward the children, and the hearts of the children will turn toward their parents." The coming redemption, the great one that we still await, is that there will be reconciliation between generations. The world will not be fully redeemed until older people, who think they have seen it all, identify with childhood's sense of wonder and are able to look at the world as the shining, new-in-every moment place that it is. The promise will not be fulfilled until children deeply appreciate the wisdom of a received tradition that instructs them in how to live a life of meaning and joy.

Is that all it takes? Yes. When the nations that have fought for generations are able to look at each other the way children look at each other, then we will be able to hold each others hands in peace. When children are taught to find love and joy in ancient traditions, not confinement and rebuke, then there will be an end to resentment and rebellion. 

The message of Elijah the prophet, in the prophecy of Malachi and in the symbolism of the seder table, is that redemption will not be delivered to us from on high, rather, it is held in the human heart. When we open to each other and see each other for the beautiful, brand new, ancient and splendid beings that we are, that is when the final promised redemption will come. 

May it be soon and in our days.


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Nadav and Avihu

1/26/2012

 
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I'm on my way home from five amazing days at the Hevraya retreat of the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. We spent our time (not enough of it) in mindfulness practice and text study. The focus of this winter's retreat was the story of Nadav and Avihu, the two sons of Aaron who died while offering "alien fire" on the altar of the Tabernacle. We studied classical midrash, Philo, Zohar and chasidic texts that show different sides of the story. 

Nadav and Avihu are sometimes regarded as terrible sinners who died because they usurped their father and desecrated the Tabernacle through improper offering. However, there are also texts that regard the brothers as righteous men whose personal sacrifice was necessary for the initiation of the sacrificial rites. The Zohar, in particular, loves Nadav and Avihu and has an extraordinary description of them "bringing atonement for the sins of Israel" (Zohar III 57b). Great stuff.

As part of the conclusion of our study, our fabulous teacher, Dr. Melila Hellner-Eshed, had us create our own interpretations and midrashim on the story. Here is mine:

NADAV AND AVIHU

There had to be two of them.
Like Eldad and Medad, who would follow them,
The pairing was a necessity
To reflect the two sides of their story.
They needed to be restrained and bound.
They needed to be recognized as prophets.
In them, the faults of Israel were revealed.
In them, the redemption of Israel was achieved.
And neither side could be true without the other.

The fiery brothers who burned
With zealous piety and selfish conceit
Are the twin offspring
Of a people bred to kiss the divine
With the kisses of their mouth
Their lips scorched and tongue howling.

They would be reborn, those two,
As the goats brought before their father
Just after their death.
Before he drew the lots,
Aaron looked into the oblong pupils and wondered,
"Is that you, Avihu? Is that you, Nadav?
My beautiful and cursed boys?
Must you always be marked for holy death?
In you, Israel finds atonement.
In you, broken bones and scorched soul
Will remind them
Of the price for reaching beyond the bounds."


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Acharei Mot: Facing the Direction of Azazel

4/12/2011

 
By fire, God killed Aaron's sons, Nadav and Avihu, for the sin of bringing an offering to the Tabernacle when they were not told to do so. It was right after their death, of all times, that God chose to tell Aaron about the ritual on Yom Kippur for purifying the Tabernacle of sin.  

If the timing of this instruction was painful for Aaron— like God rubbing salt into the wounds of his grief—the symbolism of the scapegoat ritual may have been even more agonizing. God commanded Aaron, every year, to watch as the pair were symbolically cast into fire again.

"Bring two goats to the Tent of Meeting," God tells Aaron (Lev. 16:7-8). "Place lots on them, one marked 'for the Lord' and one marked 'for Azazel.'" The one marked 'for the Lord' was offered as a sacrifice upon the altar to atone for sin. The one marked 'for Azazel' was sent off into the wilderness, never to be seen again, to symbolically carry away the people's sins.

Aaron doubly experienced the worst possible grief, the death of a child, and was doomed to recapitulate it every Yom Kippur. Those two goats, marked for death because of sin, might as well have been the ghosts of Nadav and Avihu for Aaron. 

Perhaps Aaron wondered which of his boys was meant "for the Lord" and which "Azazel." Could it have mattered? Both of them were dead.

What (or who) is Azazel? No explanation is offered in the Torah. Azazel has been explained variously as a vestigial reference to a demon, a place of impurity, a personification of wickedness, or simply as a word that means "sent away."  In the end, it does not really matter what the word meant originally. We understand it as the place where our sins go once we wriggle loose of them. 

The rabbis of the Mishnah elaborated on the scapegoat ritual and say that the High Priest would tie a piece of red wool onto the head of the goat sent to Azazel and that he would "turn in the direction to which it was sent" (M. Yoma 4:1-3). And so, I imagine, Aaron, for many years after the deaths of his two oldest sons, staring off into the wilderness on Yom Kippur, searching for the place where the goat was sent. I hear him muttering: Are you there, Nadav?  Avihu, my boy, are you there? Is that bit of red I see on the horizon the ribbon I tied on your hand the day you were born? How can it be that I have wriggled loose of you?

Regret and grief are not feelings we associate with joy, but they are a necessary part of living in a world of imperfection and impermanence. In order for us, who have lived through sorrow, to come back to joy, we have to be willing to look in the direction of our loss. We have to be able to acknowledge the hard pit of grief in our gut that will never go away. It is only after we have turned in the direction of Azazel, that we can turn back to living life with appreciation of what we have, and what we had.

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