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Second Passover

5/19/2016

 
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This Sunday is a Jewish holiday that many Jews have never heard of and which very few have ever observed. The holiday is called Pesach Sheni, Second Passover, and it is a lesson about second chances.

The origin of this holiday is to be found in the book of Numbers where God instructs Moses, "When anyone is ritually unclean by contact with a dead body or on a long journey – you or your descendants – [at the time of] making the Passover offering to Adonai, they shall do so at nightfall on the fourteenth day of the second month. They shall eat matzah and bitter herbs" (Num. 9:10-11).

The Second Passover is, essentially, a cosmic do-over. It says that if you were unable to remember and celebrate the exodus from Egypt on its proper day, you have a chance to do it instead on a day exactly one month later. Those who observe Passover on Pesach Sheni are regarded exactly the same as if they had done so on the proper day of the festival.

What does that tell us about the Torah and about Judaism? Well, for one thing, it tells us that Passover is such an important holiday that the Torah doesn't want anyone to miss it. It also tells us that Judaism is a tradition that is aware of the realities of life and the imperfections of human beings. Sometimes, we don't get things right the first time. Sometimes, we need second chances. In Jewish tradition, there is always the opportunity to make up for our mistakes and try to get it right. 

So, let me take the opportunity to say that I have made mistakes in my time. I ask for forgiveness. I couldn't possibly get through life without some second chances.

If you're like me, you've probably made some mistakes in your life, too. If you're like me, you have been blessed with opportunities to apologize, to repair what has been broken, and to start all over again. Rather than treat Second Passover as an obscure and useless holiday, I invite you to consider it as a moment to appreciate with humility and gratitude the opportunity to try again, to find forgiveness for our flaws, and to try even harder the second time to live life with compassion, justice and peace.


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The 29th Day of the Counting of the Omer

The 29th Day of the Counting of the Omer

5/13/2014

 
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The 29th day of the Counting of the Omer begins on Tuesday night. Tonight we count four weeks and one day of the Omer. Today is Pesach Sheini, the “Second Passover,” on which a person who could not observe Passover at its regular time could have a second chance to fulfill the obligation.

This is the day of Chesed within Hod, love within humility. On this day, I think about how true humility is an experience of love – loving the amazing world around us and loving the blessing of being alive. Humility lowers the ego, but it lifts the soul.

I find that my truest moments of humility come when I allow myself to feel compassion for another person. If I am having difficulty with someone, I try to imagine myself in that person’s shoes. I consider the hardships the other person faces. Then I discover that, instead of feeling annoyed or angered by that person, I am awed by his or her struggles and feel humbled by them. Compassion inspires humility.

Pesach Sheini can be understood as an act of divine compassion and human humility. A person who was unable to fulfill the rituals of Passover in their proper time might feel humbled in recognizing his or her imperfections and limitations. However, the person may also feel the love of a God who gives second chances. This is a quality of forgiveness – when we are forgiven we feel both humbled and loved.

On this 29th day of the Counting of the Omer, I commit to keeping my heart open with compassion for other people and humility in recognizing their struggles.

May this be a day in which you find that love opens your heart. May you lovingly find the humility to accept the world that has been given to you as a gift that is worth more than can be measured.


For the introduction to the Counting of the Omer, click on this link:
The First Day of the Counting of the Omer

Life's Do-Overs

5/20/2013

 
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You, no doubt, have noticed that life is not one uninterrupted ascent toward fulfillment and success. I'm stating the obvious here.

We don't live in straight lines. Rather, our journey in life tends to be a series of triumphs and defeats, advances and retreats, stumbles and awkward moments of brushing the dust off our bruised knees and resuming. That's how life works for me. You, too?

There is a Jewish word for this entire process of failing and trying again. We call it t'shuvah. It is a word that we associate with seeking forgiveness on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur and we usually translate it as "atonement." But the Hebrew word has a slightly different nuance than the English. T'shuvah literally means "returning." We have fallen down, or gotten diverted onto the wrong path, we have recognized our error, made our amends, and returned to the right way. That is t'shuvah. 

But life's stumbles are not always because of our errors, mistakes and sins. Sometimes — as the saying might go — "stuff happens." There are those moments when our lives go skidding off the road, not because of our poor driving, but because the road itself is hazardous. Surely, those are the moments when we can cry up to heaven and declare, "It's not my fault!" Right? 

On the other hand, what good would that do?

When fate and the world conspire against us, and we fail as a result, the process is largely the same as it is when we are at fault. Instead of screaming, we recognize what has happened, we acknowledge any portion of the fault that is ours, and we return back to the path.

That is the process described in this week's Torah portion (Beha'alotecha) for people who, through no fault of their own, were not able to participate in the Passover ritual. In the time when the Temple stood, a person had to be in a state of ritual purity in order to offer the Paschal lamb and partake in the meal. A person who was in a state of ritual impurity because of contact with a dead body, was not permitted to perform this central ritual of the holiday. 

This is what the Torah says about such a person:
There were people who were impure because of contact with a human corpse and they could not offer the Paschal sacrifice on that day. They appeared that day before Moses and Aaron. Those people said to them, "We are impure because of contact with a human corpse. Why must we be banned from presenting Adonai's offering at its set time with the rest of the Israelites?" Moses said to them, "Stand by, and I will hear what Adonai commands about you." Adonai said to Moses, "Tell the Israelites that anyone who is made impure by a human corpse, or who is on a distant journey at the time of making the Paschal sacrifice to Adonai, or if any of your future generations are in such circumstances, you shall offer it in the second month, on the fourteenth day of the month, at twilight. You shall eat it with unleavened bread and bitter herbs." (Numbers 9:6-11).
There are a number of things interesting about this passage that offers a "do over" for people who missed Passover through no fault of their own. First of all, it required a petition from those affected to establish the rule. When life throws you a setback, it is okay to advocate your cause and seek an equitable solution. But also notice that Moses asks the petitioners to wait — Moses literally tells them to "stand" while he seeks an answer to their question — and they obey in silence. Being wronged by circumstances does not excuse impatience or self-pitying complaint.

The second interesting thing here is that Moses does not know the answer to the petitioners' question. He has to ask God. According to a classical midrash (Sifre Shelach 113), this is one of the four occasions on which Moses' mastery of the law failed him and he had to consult with God for an answer. (The other incidents are concerning the inheritance of the daughters of Zelophehad in Numbers 27:5, the man who gathered wood on the Sabbath in Numbers 15:34-35, and the blasphemy of the son of Shelomith in Leviticus 24:12). There is something about faultless suffering that is hidden from human understanding. Only God knows why innocent people are punished by unfortunate circumstances, and only God can provide a solution to their plight.

I also am struck by the way that God's answer includes a situation not included in the question. The problem presented by the petitioners and by Moses only concerned people who missed the Passover offering because they were in a state of ritual impurity. God's solution, though, also includes people who were on distant journeys. God does not want us to think only about our own unfortunate circumstance, but also to have compassion for people who face different hardships. We should not plead our own case without considering those who face other difficulties.

Finally, it is interesting that the people who have been forced to miss Passover by an act of God have only one limited opportunity to make up for it. We might have expected God and Moses to say that they could offer their Paschal do-over as soon as they returned to a state of ritual purity, but that is not the case. They only can make the offering on one specific day, called Pesach Sheini, the "Second Passover," that falls exactly one month after the first day of Passover. 

What could this teach us? Perhaps it reminds us that we do not get to make up our own rules when we perceive that the rules have failed us. Life is not always fair, but that does not excuse us from acknowledging that we still have an obligation to live within boundaries.

We do get second chances in life. The Torah recognizes that, whether we are at fault or not, we all need to be able to brush ourselves off when we hit setbacks, and to try again. Even more, we should not hesitate to seek a fair resolution when life treats us unfairly. Yet, the Torah also insists that life's setbacks should not dampen our resolve to act with patience, acceptance, compassion, integrity and self-discipline. Even a do-over must be done well.


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